Wednesday, May 8, 2013

RG2011... Facebook newsfeed post by: Rina Salwati

Rina Salwati wrote:

Before i start,
I just want you all to know, i took a long time to choose my words carefully so that no one gets offended.

I mean well. Sorry in advance.

Friends.

Remember.
You have friends who have loved ones that are involved with a club that you hate.
That does not mean these same people are the 'assholes' 'pigs' and 'liars' that you post every second on your social network.

Did it ever cross your mind,
that maybe,
their loved ones are involved because they sincerely ARE DOING GOOD?
That they sincerely, humbly DO THE RIGHT THING?
Just that NO ONE SEES IT? Cause of their label?
Because of one captain,
You hate the whole crew.

No. Anything labelled with a club that you dont like is considered shit.
right?

It's like,
What if i say Man United, is shit.
They are liars.
They are divers, and always bribe the ref in their favor to win every match.
Van Persie is shit. He cant play.
All the people who support Man U, are assholes.

one of those people,
could prolly be your father, your mother, your sister, your brother, your grandmother, your wife, your husband, and prolly you.

Are you considered an asshole too?

Who am i to say Van Persie is shit?
He prolly survived cancer and no one knw about it, and gave all his money to charity for the next 30 years after he dies.
ok off topic.

What i'm saying is,
If you want to call someone a douche,
pin point directly to the actual douche who is in the bag.
not the person who sew the bag in order to feed his family cause sewing is all that he can do.

get it?

It hurts me to see the people i care about,
read all these comments and rants and hurtful words ;
"Sape yang pakai jersey Man United memang Babi! korang sume babi."

Tak pasal pasal,
Bini best friend kau yang pakai jersey Man U tengah masak ikan goreng, kene panggil babi.

Cilaka right?

So please...
I understand.
the club got away with it. The players got off and your favorite team player got a red card.
But that does not mean, bapak si Jon ni harus di sumpah makan sampah.
Cuba lah positive sikit.

What if, someone joined that club, because he she wanted to make some changes by doing good?

Have you ever seen or checked the other team players background?
No ones realizes that Frank Lampard stayed till the very end in to keep the team together. To remind them that they play for the sport and not for the money.
Instead,
All the media attention went to Terry's case regarding his private life.

"Chelsea buruk."
"Kenapa?"
"Sebab John Terry main kayu tiga ngan bini orang."

wow. amazing.

Just.
be careful with what you say.
Your good friends yang nda ada kena mengena,
their loved ones who work hard, who believe in doing good things for the better...
how would you like it
if someone said your mom's cooking is shit?
just cause your friend doesnt like mushroom?

There's a way to voice out,
without labeling the whole football team.

"Taik la Arsenal."
"ew, pehal? Adik aku minat Arsenal"
"Oh ye ke? Oh kau takpe."

So? Adik dia? Taik?

I am a positive person.
I try my best to stay positive.
I try my best to be neutral.
I try my best to make any situation, NOT a situation.

I can sit at table surrounded by people talking about how much they hate Animation.
But i cannot sit and watch people condemn the animator.
When by right, it's the producers fault.

So friends,
please use positive words
and constructive criticism.

Say it with Love, Don't Spread it with Hate.
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

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